Hold Your Tongue

When you adopt you may hear comments about your children.  Whether you adopt or give birth to a child with special needs, you will hear comments.  We we through a lot of that with Kayla's behaviors.  Now we have children that have more obvious special needs.  I'm sure people make comments.  I get children asking about Elana all the time.  We were at Sam's today.  Elana was getting tired and screamed out.  I was passing some woman and heard her make a comment about Elana's eyes.  It was not directed at me.  I just walked by.  I'm sure worse is said.  Maybe I should have stopped and educated her.  I would say she has a happy life with a loving family.