Taking out Aggression

If by chance you ever adopt a child, domestically or internationally, and you do not instantly get a long with the child, please do not take it out on them.  It is not their fault.  They just want a family.  It will take time for bonding to happen.  It is  not always instant.  You have to keep attending to their needs.  If you feel it is overwhelming, seek help from family members, adoption groups, and/or other adoption related groups.  There are a lot of people that have probably been through what you are going through.